In fact, I'd like to avoid damages, it could lead to a loss of compression or other bad things. I'll follow NGK specs, so 12 Nm is fine I suppose. Thank you
Has your torque wrench been checked for calibration lately?
At these very low settings - it is easy to over-torque something as small as these spark plugs while waiting for the "click"....that doesn't come until too late.
Maybe try the "replacing a spark plug without a torque wrench" instructions provided on-line by NGK?
The illustration on the back of the box of my NGK plugs clearly shows that once the
new crush washer has firmly contacted the cylinder head - you tighten it (no more than) 1/2 turn.
This will be different if replacing a used NGK spark plug which has already had its crush washer crushed by previous installation!
Stig